Signs that you are your partner’s choice not its priority

If your partner cancels you at the last moment, does not invite you to important events I regret to tell you that you are only an option.

Relationships are complicated and accepting that things are not always perfect causes frustration.

Sometimes it is hard for us to recognize that each person is different and that they have had experiences that lead them to behave in a certain way.

Obvious, that is not an excuse for them to treat their partner badly, nobody deserves to be in a relationship that hurts us.

Signs that you are your partner’s choice not its priority

 

The perfect relationship does not exist, but bad relationships do.

If at times you have felt that your partner has other priorities before your company, you must sit down to consider the future of the relationship.

So, next, I will show you the 10 things that a person does that sees you as an option, and not as what it should be: its priority.

1. ALL THE PLANS THAT MAKES WITH YOU ARISE UP TO THE LAST MINUTE.

They may be planning what to do with you during the whole day, but you are always the last one to find out.

It is unpleasant to play with a person’s time, so if your partner talks to you an hour before passing by for you, or they want to see you, in short, you were an option in their activities.

2. YOU GIVE PRIORITY TO THEIR PLANS.

 

If you are who cancel the outings with YOUR friends or give them excuses not to go out with them, waiting for your partner to call you.

You are in an unfair relationship, where you put on your part, but the other person does not.

3. DOES NOT INVITE YOU TO THEIR IMPORTANT EVENTS.

 

Whether it’s a wedding, the birthday of one of THEIR friends or a family member, you’re not invited or you’re given an excuse not to go.

It is a sign that you are not their priority.

It is making it clear to you that you are not part of their life, and that they don’t want to be seen with you.

4. IT TAKES THEM TOO LONG TO ANSWER A MESSAGE.

 

Nowadays, the speed with which a message is answered has a lot to do with the degree of interest in doing so, and your partner must know it.

We all live with the phone stuck to the hand, so there is no excuse for not taking at least 5 minutes to write an answer.

It is very likely that THEY saw your message and decided to answer you later.

If you were their priority, they would answer something, even if it was to tell you that they will talk to you “after a while”.

5. GET MAD AT YOU BECAUSE YOU DID NOT ANSWER THE PHONE.

 

If they get upset when you do not answer their call, but when you’re the one who calls, they do not answer you, it’s definitely not a fair relationship.

Another thing that shows that you are not their priority, is if it takes a long time to answer.

 

6. SAYS IS NOT PREPARED FOR A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP.

 

The phrase sounds familiar: “I do not want to have a serious relationship, I like what we have”.

It is a clear sign that they do not think about a future by your side and that do not consider your relationship to be lasting.

Now think, do you want that?

7. YOU JUSTIFY THEIR BAD BEHAVIOR.

 

You think that what they do is due to lack of time, some trauma from childhood or a bitter experience. MISTAKE.

There are no people resentful, traumatized, or without lack of time, there are only people who do not love.

 

8. DOES NOT KNOW THE DETAILS OF YOUR LIFE.

 

If you know since when the first tooth fell from their mouth but your partner does not, it is because they do not have the minimum interest in knowing the important things that you have lived.

Did you tell them something and soon forgot it? Definitely did not give the importance it deserved.

9. WHEN YOU RECLAIM THEM, YOU ALWAYS LOSE.

 

First of all, we should not beg for love, but if you reclaim their lack of interest they end up telling you that you are a very demanding person.

That person does not deserve to be in your life.

When you try to improve communication, but that person does not do anything on their part, sometimes it’s not worthwhile to keep fighting.

10. YOUR SITUATION MAKES YOU SAD.

 

Remember that love should not hurt, so if all the things you have gone through cause you a type of suffering, it is best to let go.

When you are a person’s priority, the last thing that person wants is to see you sad.

Sometimes we cling to something so much that we stop thinking about how much we are worth.

You deserve to be the priority of the person next to you, not an option.

You’re worth a lot, so do not let people who do not appreciate what’s good make you suffer or you’ll lose the importance you have.

(Source: https://www.enpareja.com)